'tis Spring again (almost!)

It seems to me, just about the time the human psyche is pulled to it's fullest in one direction, the wind shifts. Spring arrives. The sun shines. There's another chance to do something else.

I've taken to waking up well-rested and happy lately; it's a nice shift. Deciding finally that I've reached my quota of inertia & apathy, especially towards my home. Somewhere along my life's journey, I decided I didn't have the skills to do it all really well and that's meant not doing anything at all. For far too long. 

I know I am genetically predisposed to star on two *reality* television shows currently running: How Clean is Your House? (BBC America) and Hoarders (A&E). I've struggled finding joy in keeping my home, it's such a fight to resist the temptation of apathy. So what if I just skip that fight and keep my damned home, because it creates joy to have a diana-kept home? Fuck-n-a. Hello, Apathy, glad you came to visit, here's the remote. I'll not be needing your services today, I'll be out in the garden or in the kitchen.  For I must also remember I'm genetically predisposed to garden magnificently and create magical baked goods.
The yard is free of debris and junk. The garage is free of nasty rental-house carpet rolls. The porch is free of trash and recycling. The kitchen is shiny and awaiting it's finishing touches. The garden is started and growing. The trees are exploding with pink and yellow and white and green. The world is ready to rejoice in all that is Spring. And so is my Heart. Amen.
(as I hit publish and joyfully wash the clothing for which I am so grateful...)

Today's a New Day

And I'm gonna sing!

Right now, it's Hello Goodbye... though this picture sends Bowling for Soup's "Come Back to Texas" through my heart ♥

This time I've taken away from blogging, away from the chaos of keeping up, has created room in my life for intense and amazing breakthroughs...

Lately, I'm especially attentive to these messages:

*Do More!

*meet thoughts and feelings with compassionate acceptance. The way I do this is to say to the thought or feeling (as if it were my precious infant child), "I'm here for you."

*Growth begins at the edge of your Comfort Zone

*Does it need to be heard? Even by me, in my own head?

*Is that really the Truth?

I'm stepping out and stepping up. It's scary and exciting. Today, I enter my 5th year without Hannah's physical presence, and it's my 10th year without Mitch's... It's only proper to celebrate such big numbers with Big Life ♥

I will take the risk of loving Hayden, strong and pure, as he deserves. As I deserve to deliver. Knowing all the time that he will die. I will, too. And death, like breathing, is a given in Life. It really is about what we do between that first breath and our last...

I'm gettin' ants in my pants and I need to DANCE! <3

How 'bout you?

For Janice

& her team of Angels ♥

Life, Under This Here Rock

I'm blaming my lack of blogposts on the filledness of my blogs. I was denied the ability to upload photos. So I wallowed instead. Still denied, I moved *another* blog to Wordpress. Then wallowed some more. Then discovered the Blog deletion didn't solve the issue. This time, instead of wallowing, I deleted what needed to be deleted from the other mystery place of deletion. Now I can upload more pictures; after I get out from under to take said photos.  

Meanwhile, check out my newly moved 365 Blog: hahamommy365.wordpress.com

TP: I'm Hungry (for breakfast!)

Diana's Breakfast:

ET(dry)BB

I have to work here, to feed my daily addiction to the food!

TP: I'm Hungry (for diana's soon-to-be-famous-cheesecake!)

I just love to master baked goods; even, maybe especially, those I cannot enjoy myself. A strange vicarious love I have for the dairy eaters of the world ♥ I did have some of this one (being the very first cheesecake I ever made), face hives & phlegm be damned, and I'm so glad I did! Just to stand out (and perhaps show off) I forgo the (anyone-can-do-it) graham cracker crust for a (diana's-got-skills) flaky pie-like crust. MmmmMmmmMmmm Added that one to my list!
Hungry?

TP: I'm Hungry (says Charlie)

but I'd rather not leave the bed to eat, if I don't have to...

More Thematic pictures over at Carmi's ♥

Base 10 Counting and the Numbering of Years

I know it's confusing to a lot of people; I can't explain why I find it so obviously easy.
When you (you of a base 10 society, like, oh, all of you reading this) begin to count, which number comes first?
ONE? Yes!
When you get to the end of your fingers, which number is that?
TEN? Yes!
If you're with me so far, this next part should come easily.
When counting Decades, Centuries, and Millenniums, the counting begins with ONE!
(see it's LOGIC folks, really and truly)
Thereby, the 21st Century AND the 2nd Millennium C.E. began with.... 2001
This year, 2010, is the final year in the first decade of the 21st Century and 2nd Millennium C.E.

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While I'm at it, this is a Canada Goose.
Unless he's specifically from Canada, then he'd be a Canadian Canada Goose.

Unconscious Mutterings, 362

I say ... and you think ... ?

1. 365 :: Sunrises
2. Tombstone :: Waste of money
3. Dumb :: Luck
4. Intrusive :: without meaning to be...
5. Fat :: and Happy
6. Axe :: Murderer
7. Planned :: gone awry
8. Spike :: the bulldog in the Alex Delaware books
9. Bleach :: keeps the toilet clean
10. Shopkeeper :: pays for protection (watch Godfather much?)

TP: 2009, The Year That Was (Hoola Hoops!)

There's always gonna be something fun when ChrisC come over! Once, he came with a roll o'tube, connectors, clippers and a heat gun = Hoola Hoop Jackpot!!
2009 was easily the Hoola Hoop Year!

My favorite pictures of myself this year came from hoola hooping in my back yard!

Some of my favorite pictures of my favorite people came with hoola hoops!